King vs servant?

My mom told me that we can be a king if we choose and accept love from people that sincerely loving us.

And still, we will be a servant if, we choose people that we love. I mean love is a poison. Toxic poison that gonna invade in every single cell in our body and it will metastasize and spread through out the body.

Being a king is easy.
Just accept love from the one who sincerely love you and thing will be easier.

But being a servant, it is never being pleasant option in any life. But still even though we know the shoulds and the shouldn'ts, we will still follow our heart and left our brain behind. Hm. Love is like a hypothalamus controlling every single thing that we did in our life. From the way we talk to the way we move, it is encourage by love.

I don't think it is cool enough to be a servant to any human that exists in this world. But that's not what is really happening. The heart gonna make brain to deny the consequences of every stupid action and let us keep on doing the bad things over and over again.

Too bad ain't it?

The main thing that I wanna say is actually how we can choose to be treated when we say yes to any love story.

If we choose the person who got a little crush on us, surely we will be treated like a king or queen. But if we still decided to love people that we love (doesn't love us back) we will surely be a servant pleasing their heart and try our best to make them happy.

We can choose to be either one.
Sometimes, sacrifice will make us see the bright side of being something.